Category Archives: Handy Hints

Peace Day 21 September 2012

Global Truce 2012 – Peace Day 21 September If we all unite, together we can create the largest global reduction of violence ever recorded on one day – Peace Day 21 September 2012 – a world record. Peace One Day … Continue reading

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He doesn’t like me! – clues that people drop

“He doesn’t like me!“ How would we normally react when one of our friends or colleagues says something like this?  Disagree – “Of course he likes you“, or make a judgement call – “You’re just being oversensitive!“  We think we’re … Continue reading

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What does it mean to feel right? – Kathryn Schulz

“What does it mean to feel right?  It means that your beliefs perfectly reflect reality; and when you feel that way you have a problem to solve  – how are you going to explain all those people who don’t agree … Continue reading

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Young children coping with earthquakes?

Brainwave is a charitable trust which exists to educate New Zealanders from all walks of life about the latest research in neuroscience.  We now know that a child’s experiences from conception to three largely determine how their brain develops, and … Continue reading

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The Human Mind – online documentary

Wow! These fabulous BBC documentaries are now available to watch for free online.  This one, The Human Mind with Robert Winston,  explores the mirror neurons, the power of our frontal lobes, and many other fascinating aspects of the brain.  There … Continue reading

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The Antidote to Apathy

This eye-opening 7-minute TED video from Dave Meslin points out the 7 obstacles in our environment which actively discourage us from getting involved and taking action on the things that matter in our communities. Instead of labelling most people as too selfish, … Continue reading

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Putting listening in the ‘too hard’ basket?

A fellow NVC/Compassionate Communication professional, LaShelle Charde writes a weekly blog with ‘gems’ for improved connection with others.  I really like this one on ‘Listening’ as I do similar activities, so thought I’d share it with you.  Working too hard at Listening? … Continue reading

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Tension and Trauma Release Exercises

Are you stressed out, suffering from tension in your neck or back, and/or having difficulty concentrating or sleeping? Starting months before we arrive in this world, we are sensitive to stressful and traumatic experiences throughout our lives.  David Berceli has … Continue reading

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Taking a ‘time out’ to reconnect

Do you react quickly in difficult conversations and then wish you’d thought it through a little more first ?  Do you find that your own emotional triggers get in the way of having a positive interaction with a colleague, and end … Continue reading

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The Dying Art of Listening – 5 tips to improve

“In our louder and louder world”, says sound expert Julian Treasure, “We are losing our listening.” In this short, fascinating talk, Treasure shares five ways to re-tune your ears for conscious listening – to other people and the world around … Continue reading

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